AI is becoming a major wedding planning tool with thousands of couples generating checklists, speeches and even vows this way. There’s a lot of curiosity about the rights and wrongs of AI in weddings, and concern over the future of weddings styled by AI. So is it OK to use AI for your wedding? No one has all the answers, but I’ve rounded up some of the really interesting stuff people are saying about using AI in wedding planning.

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Header image by Northamptonshire wedding photographers Sky Photography


I wonder if we’re being subtly steered towards the use of AI for everything wedding. At the top of almost any Google search result in 2025 is an AI overview. When, out of curiosity, I asked ‘how to write wedding vows‘, Google’s AI threw up a detailed breakdown of what to include, recommending that I ‘write from the heart’ and ‘be authentic’, following up with notes on structure and where to find more inspiration online. Oh, the irony…
At least it stopped short of asking me if I wanted it to help by writing vows for me.