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Union by Robert Fulghum – a wedding reading

Hannah and Steve chose this beautiful prose as one of their wedding readings (along with the lyrics from Something Changed by Pulp!). They were married at Sheffield’s Crucible Theatre, a contemporary venue in the heart of the city. I wanted to share this beautiful reading with you as a blog feature on its own, as I think it’s incredibly powerful.

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Steve and Hannah’s Crucible Theatre wedding in Sheffield. Photo credit www.tierneyphotography.co.uk

Union

by Robert Fulghum

You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.

The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.”

Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same.

For after today you shall say to the world –
This is my husband. This is my wife.

Source: My Twin Cities Wedding. Author Robert Fulghum

Claire Gould

Claire spends her days writing - either in beautiful calligraphy or online. She lives on the edge of the English Lake District only minutes away from the beach, where she loves to escape and unwind. Claire's calligraphy can be found at www.byMoonandTide.com. Claire launched the English Wedding Blog in November 2009 - it's been a top 10 UK wedding blog ever since, with a regional focus we hope you LOVE.

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1 COMMENT
  • trixietimez
    4 years ago

    love, love, love, this! Using it for our wedding this fall.

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