Adam from ARJ Photography is a great proponent of pre-wedding or engagement shoots, as am I. I asked him to write a guest blog post on engagement photography and he jumped at the chance!
Are you a bride– or groom-to-be, worried you’re not photogenic or perhaps feeling a little camera shy? You’re certainly not the first to be nervous about having your photograph taken, and if your wedding is fast approaching it’s a good idea to try and overcome these worries. That’s where a pre-wedding photo session with your photographer comes in. Trust me — you’ll be so glad you did.
Over to Adam…
Why is engagement photography so important?
Well lots of reasons, but there are three really big ones…
Firstly, you get to see your wedding photographer at work before the big day. This in itself will increase your confidence in them and reinforce your decision to choose them which, at this point, has been made from other people’s wedding photos, personality and a big old chunk of instinct.
My style is fun, relaxed and relatively informal and it’s a great way to show that I’m not just going to bark orders and shout SMILE.
It also lets your photographer see how you are with each other, how you react to the camera, which poses you enjoy and work for you as a couple and individuals. This combines to help your photographer know how to make you look your absolute best on your wedding photos.
Most of all, you’ll see your engagement photos and think ‘wow — we look A-MAZ-ING’. More confidence again that you’ve got a really good photographer, and one less thing to worry about in the run up to your wedding day. And let’s face it, anything you can knock off the ‘worry list’ is more than welcome, right?!
I do all my engagement sessions as on-location lifestyle shoots. I suggest locations but always try to match it to the couple’s own style and some know exactly where they want it.
Some photographers do engagement photos at their studio, but I think lifestyle shoots are more natural and more like how it’ll be on the wedding day when we do the bride and groom portraits.
All my couples get their favourite photo presented in a big mount for their guests to sign around on the wedding day. Some also have guest books, albums, and DVD slideshows made. If we do it early enough, we can even plan in photos to be used as table numbers, for save the date cards and invitations or just as part of the all-important little details that help make up a wedding day.
The added bonus of all this for me on the wedding day is — instead of arriving at the brides home and just being introduced as ‘the photographer’ I’m much more likely to be referred to as ‘Adam’! I like that.
And the phrase I most often hear at the end of an engagement shoot? “Wow, that was so much fun, I can’t WAIT to see them!”. Success.
Thanks to Adam from ARJ Photography for this fantastic advice on engagement photography. If you’re in Manchester, Cheshire or nearby do check out his wedding photography website and the ARJ Photography blog for more information on his services.
See a full engagement photo shoot by ARJ Photography on English Wedding: Liz & Jon’s engagement shoot in Delamere Forest.
























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Couldn’t agree more! Why would you not have a test-run of something you were spending quite a bit of money on, and putting so much hope into? The first pre-wedding shoot I did was so much fun, but the groom seemed surprised on the day when he got asked to “do it all over again”. Don’t think I was clear enough in explaining the ‘practice’ element of it! I started doing engagement shoots properly when I was shooting weddings in the Caribbean — they were mostly American couples and pre-wedding shoots were the done thing for them. It was useful for them, and REALLY useful for me; I got to learn what they were feeling insecure about, how confident they were and how to get the best out of them. I’m so happy it’s becoming more popular in the UK now!
They are some gorgeous examples you have there, you can just tell the couples have eased into it a bit and are going to be so much more relaxed for their wedding shots.
Absolutely agree with Adam’s advice.
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I totaly agree that everyone should always have a trial run on the photos , We have trial runs in the church so it seems good that you should have them on as many aspects of the big day as possible. There are so many things to take into account,so always plan and rehearse as many things as you can.
Kind Regards
David Head
Catering Manchester